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 Why do guys say they love someone and really don't (currently 129 views) |
| DEADLY |
| Posted on: November 24th, 2009, 6:53pm |
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| why do guy's say they are in love when they really don't know why they are in love? Why do they say that they know what love is when really don't know? Do anyone get to have a say so when they really love someone or they just going to keep going out with one girl and then go out with others.? |
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| kawaiiazelle13 |
| Posted on: November 25th, 2009, 10:20am |
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"why do guy's say they are in love when they really don't know why they are in love?"
It doesn't only apply on males. It also apply with females. Here's an example, if i love a guy because he's cute, he's always there for me, he makes me laugh. Would my feelings change if I couldn't find those things at him anymore? Of course not, because you love someone the way he or she is. That's why in my opinion LOVE HAS NO REASONS.
"Why do they say that they know what love is when really don't know?"
Some things are hard to explain, some people think loving someone is like a game, a joke maybe. They don't realize if they are hurting someone or not. Asking them questions like that could take time to find someone who would have a clear explanation.
"Do anyone get to have a say so when they really love someone or they just going to keep going out with one girl and then go out with others.?"
I don't really understand your question well, but how i understood it, some people are "players", They just have relationship for fun and everything. They're not serious in any commitments they have. It's natural for some guys to go out one after another girl but we shouldn't take that generally though. It's hard to make a guy like that change to be a loyal one. I guess. |
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| Inni Gogos |
| Posted on: January 28th, 2010, 11:31am |
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| men say it cause women want it and if he didn't say it then the women would keave so really men say becauser they want to stay with you and f*** you |
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| Kevs |
| Posted on: February 1st, 2010, 11:52am |
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men say it cause women want it and if he didn't say it then the women would keave so really men say becauser they want to stay with you and f*** you |
never mind this loser here...
hope these people who have nothing constructive to say would get lost... |
Fate is building bridges of chances for the person you love..
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| johnausten |
| Posted on: March 19th, 2010, 12:20pm |
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It's no secret that guys aren't the best at articulating what they're thinking. Combine that with the fact that they'd rather bend the truth a little than risk letting you down and you're left with a baffling, cryptic code to decipher.
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| Eternally Breath |
| Posted on: March 29th, 2010, 9:36am |
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| I guess ..only to play with the females feelings ... |
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| s.al-qahtani |
| Posted on: April 17th, 2010, 9:10pm |
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| Emiratie_Babe |
| Posted on: April 28th, 2010, 3:23pm |
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 Thats not true for all guys.... me and my bf have been togther 7 months and he would neva even dream of cheating or playing me ... When he says i love you he actually means it !
Its all about choosing the right guy not a PLAYER !
you have to be commited yourself and put yourself oout to look for a deccent guy !!!!
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| carrie |
| Posted on: April 29th, 2010, 1:34pm |
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| Not all guys! But all of them are born flirts.. Sometimes relationships turns sour because of innocent flirtations. |
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| safa |
| Posted on: June 1st, 2010, 9:00pm |
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car les pluspar sont menteures cheree 
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| Myzyri |
| Posted on: June 2nd, 2010, 5:34am |
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men say it cause women want it and if he didn't say it then the women would keave so really men say becauser they want to stay with you and f*** you |
OK, so, while this guy is a loud-mouthed, crude, scumbag loser, he has a point.
A lot of guys are "players" who use the phrase "I love you" as a manipulation tool. When someone says "I love you," it makes you feel closer to them if you feel the same way. Even if you don't feel the same way, you at least feel like you can trust that person a little more.
So, as a manipulation tactic, guys use it to build trust which usually causes the girl to let her guard down and/or give in to his sexual advances more easily.
Unfortunately, after it's all over, these girls typically have a harder time trusting other guys. The effect of this dastardly tactic has positives and negatives. The positives are that the girls usually don't fall for the same trick twice and don't usually get "used" by "players" again (although it *does* happen to the dummies and the sluts). The negatives are that it hurts them emotionally, causes them to be less trusting, causes them to be less open/honest, and can cause problems for future relationships. |
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| Nisse_x33 |
| Posted on: June 2nd, 2010, 2:45pm |
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[face=Courier][/face]Well thtt is true i wonder if thtt person knows thtt they are hurting someone
But whtt sucks the most is thtt the person is still hurt about the other person
They really dont have a good feeling about love anymore
Everyone will get hurt at one point but just have in mind thtt
Everything you do will have a consequence later on in life.. 
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