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| chantal |
| Posted on: May 8th, 2010, 12:41pm |
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please give me advice....i have a relationship with someone who had a past relation with her live in partner for 7years they had a son.....they relationship had been broke for about 1 and a half year....and now our relationship is 1year already....i had this feeling that they chat each other i feel so jealous i know we don't have a kid and i feel that very soon they will reconcile  i don't want to become the hindrance for the reunion of their family....i don't want to let him go co'z i love him.....but i also want him to be reunited with his son.....what will i'm going to do???? losing him or keeping him |
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| Myzyri |
| Posted on: May 31st, 2010, 5:47am |
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Talk to him about it...
First, see if he's really chatting with her or if your feeling is wrong.
Second, why doesn't he see is son? Just because he's not with his ex doesn't mean he can't see his son. That's what courts and attorneys are for if the mother refuses to let him visit their kid. |
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| chantal |
| Posted on: June 4th, 2010, 6:56pm |
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| its ok for me to let him see his child ,,its not a big deal for me.....the big deal for me is i feel that his hiiding something behind my back........... |
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| chantal |
| Posted on: June 4th, 2010, 6:58pm |
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| then one time i saw him chatting with someboody else....they exchange conversation then i feel that he likes this girl....its not the same girl that he had relation with 7 years |
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| sheela2000 |
| Posted on: June 20th, 2010, 8:40am |
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No one will be honest enough to tell you the truth, but the problem is sexual tension and it's very common for fathers who once felt close to their daughters to suddenly find them sexually attractive and be unable to deal with it except by pushing them away. It's not that your dad's a pervert or would ever force you to do anything like that it's that he's a normal healthy male who finds breasts, smooth skin and tight asses attractive. You've got to bring the issue out into the open. I understand this book is a good primer for the family.
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| karen B |
| Posted on: June 21st, 2010, 12:23am |
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| honey its the hardest things to do but let it go for ur sanity they will always be a they a family even if u were married it would be seperate dont do it to urself been there before the child is in control let it go hes the one with the baggage u r wnted no children u desrve some one that will be happy about lifes milestones with u not some one who has been there and done thatyou deserve your own love now u just have to believe it god bless u with the strenght to do what is right for u all u need are good friends u can get through it honery |
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| Myzyri |
| Posted on: June 21st, 2010, 2:54am |
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| Fan of William Faulkner, are we? LOL |
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| maha77 |
| Posted on: August 4th, 2010, 9:55am |
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I got married at 18 and my husband was 27. He had already lost a lot of hair. It did not matter to me because I loved him, not his hair. Once my husband shaved his head. He looked really hot that way and you could not tell where his hairline was. Have you ever thought about shaving your head. Lots of guys, even actors shave and have the totally bald look.
You guys have been together a long time. She is not going to care. I am sure she probably has things about herself that she is insecure about. Most people have something they wish they could change. Just tell her and enjoy your summer.
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