[quote=Tender]How? like we have?? [/quote thank you .... but i know you are talking to mel.. kidding.. need your advice its about my dad and my godmother. yes.. i played " matchmaker" for my dad for 2 years and its didnt work. when we moved in texas i accidentally met my godmother ..she was there for business.. of course shes happy to see me.. but she asked first hows my dad not me... and it gave me an idea " why not her" but i have a problem .. shes getting married.. and i asked her if she loves her fiancee.. she just said "hes a good man.." she didnt asnwer my question..
whats that supposed to mean?? is that a love??
so i gave my dads phone number instead of mine.. and i told her il be expecting her call.. she made a phone call at 8 PM while my dad was playing on the piano.. i only heard the HELLO.. and he started staring at space.. that call bothered him a lot.. i never told him yet i met my godmother at that time( for 2 days).. i just observed first his behavior when he heard her voice.. and later in the morning he asked me if i still remeber my godmother.. i directly anwered him..You miss her?? and he changed the topic immediately.. and kiss me byebye for work..
i really feel there is a love between my dad and my godmother.. he just can admit it.. both of them..
They love one another greatly but are just unable to acknowledge that ddue to the circumstances in the apst who did that they didnt married, and that all the time he was married to your mum, they had to hidde their feelings for each others completely.. they are like burried in this forbidden love, who isnt forbidden anymore, but in the habit of shame surrounding it. Thats a heavy burden, beleive me! So of course to untangle all this, and with the little time there is with this marriage into orbit, you have to get them at you place fast, and confront them with ti and why he went to china and all this. They got to talk, your dad has used himself at hidding it all for so long, that its going to be hard for him to ocme out with it, and your godmum, has bear such pain in waiting and waiting and nothing, that its going to be hard for both of them, but oyu got to do it. You are the link! you are their bridge!
Yes, what hse said he is a good man means she dont love him at all, but hé, she cant wait until the end of time when your dad is so reticent at coming up with his feelings for her! So someone came along, and was insistent, and she gave in cause she is human and need care too. Now get them to talk force them if you have to, make a scene scream cry, jump around like a kangooroo, but get them to speak out! Thats what I will do! And when they have begin make sure all go as it shall, and at some very good moment, escape to the kitchen make some tea or else, and when the wheel is greasing and now they are chatting like baby birds, get out and let them talk, and come back a few hours later to see how much they are still talking. Do this tomorrow. Thats a very good day to do it. And repeat the session very often. They have to talk and she has to stay over, and they are going to cry, and it will be good, and to laugh, and they will be happy. Well, the other guy wont be, but hé, he didnt waited THAT LONG either.
Gee! this is the best true love story ever! I really love that Sherryl, and you know what? You are an Angel! Yes you are!
They love one another greatly but are just unable to acknowledge that ddue to the circumstances in the apst who did that they didnt married, and that all the time he was married to your mum, they had to hidde their feelings for each others completely.. they are like burried in this forbidden love, who isnt forbidden anymore, but in the habit of shame surrounding it. Thats a heavy burden, beleive me! So of course to untangle all this, and with the little time there is with this marriage into orbit, you have to get them at you place fast, and confront them with ti and why he went to china and all this. They got to talk, your dad has used himself at hidding it all for so long, that its going to be hard for him to ocme out with it, and your godmum, has bear such pain in waiting and waiting and nothing, that its going to be hard for both of them, but oyu got to do it. You are the link! you are their bridge!
Yes, what hse said he is a good man means she dont love him at all, but hé, she cant wait until the end of time when your dad is so reticent at coming up with his feelings for her! So someone came along, and was insistent, and she gave in cause she is human and need care too. Now get them to talk force them if you have to, make a scene scream cry, jump around like a kangooroo, but get them to speak out! Thats what I will do! And when they have begin make sure all go as it shall, and at some very good moment, escape to the kitchen make some tea or else, and when the wheel is greasing and now they are chatting like baby birds, get out and let them talk, and come back a few hours later to see how much they are still talking. Do this tomorrow. Thats a very good day to do it. And repeat the session very often. They have to talk and she has to stay over, and they are going to cry, and it will be good, and to laugh, and they will be happy. Well, the other guy wont be, but hé, he didnt waited THAT LONG either.
Gee! this is the best true love story ever! I really love that Sherryl, and you know what? You are an Angel! Yes you are!
thank you so much... i will kidnap my self.. for that.. no .. just kidding..
yes why not?? ohmm.. .. hehehe.. i have to do this.. il will stop the wedding.. il fly to japan for this, and kidnap my godmother .. and take note my godmothers name is sharlyn .. and my name is sheryl.. why my parents gave me this name?? or was it my dads idea..??
i really need to talk my godmother.. if my dad cant makes the first move .. il do it..
thank you guys..
this is the first time you did not include mel.. hehehe joke..
Well i wanst aware they were living very far appart.. wont be easy..specially from Japan, but, we got planes..and there is still fuel.. so why not. Why dont you talk to her first, and ask her plenty of questions and do the same to your dad and no matter how much he denies just push him with it? If you got it clear from both from before they cant deny it and you cna said it to each other.. what the other said and get them to talk togehter this way.. maybe by phone.. this one is a real hard nut to crack. te one is in Japan and the other one is where? I thougth they were living close and that your godmum was living close by and coming often..but he just didnt noticed her love for him. thats what I understood from the other thread..
Well i wanst aware they were living very far appart.. wont be easy..specially from Japan, but, we got planes..and there is still fuel.. so why not. Why dont you talk to her first, and ask her plenty of questions and do the same to your dad and no matter how much he denies just push him with it? If you got it clear from both from before they cant deny it and you cna said it to each other.. what the other said and get them to talk togehter this way.. maybe by phone.. this one is a real hard nut to crack. te one is in Japan and the other one is where? I thougth they were living close and that your godmum was living close by and coming often..but he just didnt noticed her love for him. thats what I understood from the other thread..
we are now living here in texas.. i hate moving a lot.. eerrrrrrrr.. and hard to adjust the surrounndings and people .. and the weather . hehehehe very stormy.. like my brain and heart..
according to my aunt who is also working in MDIMC my godmother was invited on my parents wedding but she didnt came.. instead she came on my baptism.. maybe she heard my name is after hers.. hehehehe..
im sure about this.. i really want to do this.. i just need another brain to guide me.. and its you and your freinds here.. thank you so muc... and you can also tell mel to write the lovestory of my dad.. hehehehe joke.. you said he likes fantasy.. didnt you?
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