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Feelinghopeless1
Posted on: July 13th, 2006, 7:52am Report to Moderator
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Hello everyone you know I've been holding this in for about 10 months now and I really need some advice!!

This is a long story and some of you people might think I'm crazy but here goes.

Back in the 6th grade I met this girl, she was one of my first girlfriends. Her name is Chelsea. anyways, I met her because she was a cheerleader for my football team. We went out for about 3 months and I was incredibly shy so that is why it ended. So the next year; 7th grade, we moved up to Jr High School it was a school for 7th and 8th graders. I was in all of her classes and the whole year she was really into the older guys (consquently). That whole year I couldn't get over the fact that I screwed up and was very angry at myself but I waited and waited. And finally I had another chance to go out with her. It didn't last very long because someone made up rumors that I was going to dump her or whatever. That summer I had another chance, and we went pretty much the whole time took a little break and the beginning of 8th grade we were going out again. It was great, we were so comfortable around each other, and things we going well. I was the "star" of my football team 8th grade and I couldn't of asked for anything more. Everyone in school looked up to me, and I had so many friends. It was the best year of my life. Wherever I was, I was with Chelsea. The best part about it was we were best friends and boyfriend and girlfriend at the same time. I could talk to her about anything and I came to her with my problems and she did in return. 8th grade was so great, I loved my school, I was doing great on my football team (I always dreamed being the star of my football team since I was about 6 years old, and it's been my dream to go Pro ever since.) Anytime I would ever do anything wrong in school, the counselor at my school ( he basically ran the school, he was also my football coach ) always told me I couldn't be doing anything bad because so many people look up to me. Well, Chelsea and I went out for almost a year! During Freshman summer we had been fighting alot, and on top of that we didn't see each other alot. So, we brokeup about 2 weeks before school had started. I was so crushed but I thought for sure we would get back together because she told me we were taking a break and we probably would get back together. About a week later she got drunk and hooked up with another guy :/ . I felt so betrayed and she told me it didnt mean anything to her and we'd be back together. I started talking to her friends and they told me she had been planning to breakup with me b4 school started so she could go for older guys. Although I wasn't sure who to believe because about 2 months b4 we brokeup, her friends were really stuck up towards me. and the girl who told me she had been planning this liked me prior so I wasn't sure what to think. So school started football season started back up. Little did I know this would be the worst year of my life! The football coaches never gave me a shot, and after chelsea and I brokeup I said to myself hey at least I still got my dream blah blah. I got to play maybe 30 plays at the most that whole season. I was so crushed. At the first couple High School football games she'd hang out with me for the first half and her friends and older guys for the other. But, we hooked up one last time shortly after this. As time went by she quit talking to me little by little and she ended up saying I don't want to talk to you on the phone every couple days, and said we should go our seperate ways. Shortly after her friend, Kate who I knew since 2nd grade because our brothers we both friends had told me she cheated on me for about half the summer. But I didn't know if this was true or not because I had heard Kate liked me and wanted to hook up with me or whatever, but I took her word for it anyways. During this time almost everyone has changed and they didn't like me anymore, or they acted stuck up towards me. I had 4 friends and thats it. So, I never left my house I just stayed on home on the weekends and dwelled on how everything went so horrible this year. This went on for about 3 months before I could finally be myself again. The summer prior I had asked her to go to homecoming with me. and at this time it was about to be homecoming. I had mixed feelings about this, she had blown me off alot and I really didnt want to go with her. Well homecoming was miserable, she was dancing with one of my really good old friends the whole time and didn't dance with me once. I had now was my 4 friends, we would hang out about everyone weekend. About a month after homecoming I hooked up with this girl because it was just something I had to do, I needed to get over Chelsea. It didn't feel right, I couldn't get her out of my head no matter what I did.. I confronted chelsea about her cheating on me and she totally denied the whole thing and soon we had hated each others guts. It was about feburary when she got a new boyfriend. I apologized to her for accusing her, and we became friends again ( didn' t talk very much although ). It turned at she really hadn't cheated on me becuase even when she hated me she still said she didn't cheat. As time went by things started going down hill with 3 of my friends and slowly but surely we stopped hanging out for what reason I have no idea. I had 1 friend he had been my best friend since about 3rd grade and he too had an miserable year ( I forgot to mention he was one of the stars of the football team 8th grade ). I had a 3.5 GPA and my grades greatly started slipping because I only had him to hang out with and so many people had changed. So here I am it's summer again, I haven't talked to chelsea during the summer yet only online a couple times. My friend Travis and I made the decision that we're going to switch schools, because we clearly didn't fit in and especially because we dont smoke or drink. The varsity football coach had already told us we have no chance of starting JV or Varsity ( it's not because we're not good enough, it's all about if the coach knows you or not and at my position is a kid who the coach knows very well and his dad played pro football, so I have no chance at started and he had basically told me that.) So my friend Travis and I thought it'd be best if we switched school since every1 has changed, and we have no chance at playing football. I've been pretty excited to leave my school but now I'm starting to think if I go then chances are me and chelsea will never go out again, or even talk for that matter. I left some things out of the story but Please Please I need some advice here!!
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Posted on: July 14th, 2006, 3:12am Report to Moderator
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guess no1 knows 10 views but no replies
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Quoted from Feelinghopeless1
anyways, I met her because she was a cheerleader for my football team. We went out for about 3 months and I was incredibly shy so that is why it ended.


Dating in 6th grade...  Sheesh...  And once you're dating someone, what's the point of being shy?


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So the next year; 7th grade, we moved up to Jr High School it was a school for 7th and 8th graders. I was in all of her classes and the whole year she was really into the older guys (consquently). That whole year I couldn't get over the fact that I screwed up and was very angry at myself but I waited and waited. And finally I had another chance to go out with her. It didn't last very long because someone made up rumors that I was going to dump her or whatever.


She sounds like a moron.  Any broad who believes crap like that from other people is a moron.  If they siad you were cheating on her, I could see her questioning it, but if you weren't acting like you were disinterested in the relationship, she's just a sheep following wh
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anyways, I met her because she was a cheerleader for my football team. We went out for about 3 months and I was incredibly shy so that is why it ended.


Dating in 6th grade...  Sheadmin
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