anyways, I met her because she was a cheerleader for my football team. We went out for about 3 months and I was incredibly shy so that is why it ended.
Dating in 6th grade... Sheesh... And once you're dating someone, what's the point of being shy?
So the next year; 7th grade, we moved up to Jr High School it was a school for 7th and 8th graders. I was in all of her classes and the whole year she was really into the older guys (consquently). That whole year I couldn't get over the fact that I screwed up and was very angry at myself but I waited and waited. And finally I had another chance to go out with her. It didn't last very long because someone made up rumors that I was going to dump her or whatever.
She sounds like a moron. Any broad who believes crap like that from other people is a moron. If they siad you were cheating on her, I could see her questioning it, but if you weren't acting like you were disinterested in the relationship, she's just a sheep following what other people tell her.
That summer I had another chance, and we went pretty much the whole time took a little break and the beginning of 8th grade we were going out again. It was great, we were so comfortable around each other, and things we going well. I was the "star" of my football team 8th grade and I couldn't of asked for anything more.
Friggin' jocks... Well hey, I was the "star" of my football team, I was an all-state wrestler, and I was the midwest tennis champion. I'm 30 years old now and you know what all that means? It means private and I knew that it would become meaningless back then. You better start "asking for more" or else you're going to be sorely disappointed when you grow up. Who knows, maybe you're professional material. If you're really good, then don't count it out, but also don't count on it...
Everyone in school looked up to me, and I had so many friends. It was the best year of my life. Wherever I was, I was with Chelsea. The best part about it was we were best friends and boyfriend and girlfriend at the same time. I could talk to her about anything and I came to her with my problems and she did in return.
8th grade was so great, I loved my school, I was doing great on my football team (I always dreamed being the star of my football team since I was about 6 years old, and it's been my dream to go Pro ever since.) Anytime I would ever do anything wrong in school, the counselor at my school ( he basically ran the school, he was also my football coach ) always told me I couldn't be doing anything bad because so many people look up to me.
Typical jagoff coach garbage letting his minions get away with anything...
well, Chelsea and I went out for almost a year! During Freshman summer we had been fighting alot, and on top of that we didn't see each other alot. So, we brokeup about 2 weeks before school had started. I was so crushed but I thought for sure we would get back together because she told me we were taking a break and we probably would get back together.
This chick seems like a nutjob. You don't "Take a break" and then expect to get back together. I haven't read the rest of your post... I'm replying as I read this, but I'm guessing she dumped you to date someone else. When a girl says, "we should take a break," she means, "I'm dumping you to go f*** another guy and if it doesn't work out with him, I'll be back."
About a week later she got drunk and hooked up with another guy :/ .
DAMN, I'm good... Oh yeah, and I guarantee she already had her eye on him... The drunkenness was just an excuse that she hoped would make it seem more like a mistake as opposed to a betrayal. What a b****... And what the hell is she doing drinking anyway?
I felt so betrayed and she told me it didnt mean anything to her and we'd be back together. I started talking to her friends and they told me she had been planning to breakup with me b4 school started so she could go for older guys.
She seems like a total b****... I'm sorry to say it, but it doesn't seem like she cares about you. She's a user and an opportunist. Stop being her doormat.
Although I wasn't sure who to believe because about 2 months b4 we brokeup, her friends were really stuck up towards me.
Probably because she was talking crap about you to them. That's what girls do. To make a break-up seem justifiable, they think up every nasy thing about you and tell their friends. Eventually, the friends turn on you and tell her she's an idiot for staying with the guy. This confirms her feelings (when in fact she designed it to work out this way), and then she dumps you and feels liberated because she broke away from a jerk. Less guilt for her. Selfish cow...
and the girl who told me she had been planning this liked me prior so I wasn't sure what to think.
I know what I think... I think this girl is more concerned about you and your feelings than your supposed "girlfriend." Go for this chick... Do yourself a favor and be with someone who has the capactiy to love you back...
So school started football season started back up. Little did I know this would be the worst year of my life! The football coaches never gave me a shot, and after chelsea and I brokeup I said to myself hey at least I still got my dream blah blah. I got to play maybe 30 plays at the most that whole season. I was so crushed. At the first couple High School football games she'd hang out with me for the first half and her friends and older guys for the other.
So.... she basically rubbed it in your face... Nice... What a wench...
But, we hooked up one last time shortly after this. As time went by she quit talking to me little by little and she ended up saying I don't want to talk to you on the phone every couple days, and said we should go our seperate ways.
Shortly after her friend, Kate who I knew since 2nd grade because our brothers we both friends had told me she cheated on me for about half the summer.
But I didn't know if this was true or not because I had heard Kate liked me and wanted to hook up with me or whatever, but I took her word for it anyways. During this time almost everyone has changed and they didn't like me anymore, or they acted stuck up towards me.
I like Kate... Give her a shot... As for your other friends, screw 'em. If they're acting like that towards you, then they're not really your friends anyway... Think of it as a "cleansing." You're getting rid of the negative assholes in your life and while it may hurt for awhile and fill you with a little emptiness, you'll be better off because of it.
I had 4 friends and thats it. So, I never left my house I just stayed on home on the weekends and dwelled on how everything went so horrible this year. This went on for about 3 months before I could finally be myself again. The summer prior I had asked her to go to homecoming with me. and at this time it was about to be homecoming. I had mixed feelings about this, she had blown me off alot and I really didnt want to go with her. Well homecoming was miserable, she was dancing with one of my really good old friends the whole time and didn't dance with me once.
Good. You don't need her anyway. She's a liar, a cheater, a manipulator, a user, and an all around heartless c*nt.
I had now was my 4 friends, we would hang out about everyone weekend. About a month after homecoming I hooked up with this girl because it was just something I had to do, I needed to get over Chelsea. It didn't feel right, I couldn't get her out of my head no matter what I did.. I confronted chelsea about her cheating on me and she totally denied the whole thing and soon we had hated each others guts.
I wonder why... Oh yeah, she was pi***d that you found out and she got caught. She probably also felt a little betrayed by whoever told you. If she didn't know who told you, then she's probably worried about which friend is betraying her. Hopefully you didn't tell her it was Kate because not knowing would f*ck up Chelsea's whole world... I love it... It's just so deliciously evil...
I apologized to her for accusing her, and we became friends again ( didn' t talk very much although ). It turned at she really hadn't cheated on me becuase even when she hated me she still said she didn't cheat.
She's full of crap... She "got drunk" and went off with another guy. It's reasonable to believe she'd do it again. Trust me, even when you're drunk, you still have enough wherewithall to know you're dating someone. I've been drunk many times while dating someone, but I never went off with some chick and later claimed it was a mistake that didn't mean anything. Saying that makes her look like either a cheating b*tch or a complete moron. In her case, we'll assume she's both.
As time went by things started going down hill with 3 of my friends and slowly but surely we stopped hanging out for what reason I have no idea.
Well, if there was no big blow-out, you can still call them up and say, "hey man, I haven't talked to you in awhile... We all just kind of drifted apart and that kind of blows... We oughtta hook up one of these days." Then plan something up... Go shoot pool go bowling, go to the park and gawk at chicks... I don't know... Do whatever high school kids do these days...
I had 1 friend he had been my best friend since about 3rd grade and he too had an miserable year ( I forgot to mention he was one of the stars of the football team 8th grade ). I had a 3.5 GPA and my grades greatly started slipping because I only had him to hang out with and so many people had changed. So here I am it's summer again, I haven't talked to chelsea during the summer yet only online a couple times.
You don't need this crap... Don't even bother with that skank...
My friend Travis and I made the decision that we're going to switch schools, because we clearly didn't fit in and especially because we dont smoke or drink.
Good for you... That just cancelled out the whole "a**hole jock" think for me... Stay clean, stay in school... Maybe you're more professional-material than I orignally thought... You're smarter than I originally gave you credit for...
Oh yeah, and check out the movie THE NEW GUY with DJ Qualls. You should find it amusing considering you want to switch schools...
The varsity football coach had already told us we have no chance of starting JV or Varsity ( it's not because we're not good enough, it's all about if the coach knows you or not and at my position is a kid who the coach knows very well and his dad played pro football, so I have no chance at started and he had basically told me that.) So my friend Travis and I thought it'd be best if we switched school since every1 has changed, and we have no chance at playing football.
Well, that's better than pulling a "Columbine." I'm glad you're smarter than all that foolishness.
I've been pretty excited to leave my school but now I'm starting to think if I go then chances are me and chelsea will never go out again, or even talk for that matter. I left some things out of the story but Please Please I need some advice here!!
You want advice. Here it is... You're doing the right thing by switching schools.
DO NOT EVER make a decision based on a "what if" concerning a woman.
Did you know that 99.6% of all high school relationships end? Chelsea, as far as I can tell is one of the largest negatives in your life. You need to cut it off with her completely. As a manipulative cow, she loves the fact that she's still got you under her thumb. She likes knowing you're still around if she needs you. But think about that. If she needs you, would you help her out? Sure you would. If you needed her, would she come help you? Hell no. There's no mutual respect in this relationship and that's what it boils down to.
Once you get to college, your whole life will change. You'll meet scores of women, you'll make a ton of new friends, and high school will be a distant memory. Sure you'll keep a few of your ghigh school buddies, but I guarantee you'll find more love and true friendship in college. When you live with your friends, you form stronger relationships.
Have fun in high school. Make some new friends and give it your all. Maybe you'll make a friend for life; maybe you'll go your separate ways in college, but at least you did your best, you made those friends, and enriched one anothers' lives. Go on a few dates. Maybe you'll end up with her forever and maybe you won't, but at least you'll have shared some great times together and gained some real life experience. Forget about Chelsea, that conniving sl*t... You deserve friends and girlfriends who will respect you as much as you respect them.
You're making the right choice to make your life better and Chelsea should not be a part of your new life.
Back when I was in college, I dated a girl named Allison for about two months before she wanted to have a serious talk. She told me she wasn't ready to be serious and blah blah blah. Yeah, she didn't want to be serious, yet I'd been poking her for the last two weeks... Anyway, she said she wanted us to see other people.
Well, I wasn't stupid. Before I dated her, I knew she had a crush on a guy who had a girlfriend. Two days before our "serious talk," that guy got dumped.
Well, since I'm not the type of guy to get all mushy and depressed (which I think is how I've portrayed myself) over some chick I've only been dating for two months, I agreed whole heartedly.
The next night, I threw a party with my roommate. It was awesome. See we were rooming together in a double (which was huge for a dorm room - like 30x20). A month after we were at school, the two guys in the double next door moved out to be with other friends who were in a campus house. I asked the school if I could have that double to myself. They agreed. So, my roomie and I still roomed together, but we had an extra double right next door to party in. $150 at Salvation Army and Home Depot decked it out with couches, lofts, entertainment center, full size beer fridge, etc. It was awesome.
Anyway, I throw this party and invite every chick I can find. I hooked up wtih two girls that night (at different times). The next morning, I wake up by being slapped on the head... There's Allison. Next to me in bed (with her knockers hanging out) is Melissa... Melissa was Allison's roommate the year before. Allison screams a bunch of crap and goes running out. I really don't even know what she was screaming through all the tears.
Melissa jumps up, gets dressed, and runs after Allison. Blah blah blah... Come to find out, here's what happened...
Allison wanted to see other people. She heads off and hookers up to go meet Jeff (the guy she had a crush on) at a party the next night (the same night as my party). She gets there and she's hitting on him all night.
Let me state this before I continue... Allison was VERY cute. When she was all dressed up, I'd even say she was pretty. But she wasn't the hottest thing around. I'd say she was average with an added cuteness.
Anyway, Jeff gets up to go get drinks. Allison wanders over and hears him say to his friend, "Hey... Can you play wingman? This f*ckin' troll just won't leave me alone..." The friend (also a friend of mine - he told me the story) asked who she was, and Jeff's response, from what I was told, was, "She's the little piglet over by the couch." At that point, Jeff turned around and saw her standing right there. She looked furious. He apparently said something like, "Well, I tried to be nice, but I guess you know now... Sorry. Not gonna happen." Then she ran out in tears.
Melissa caught up with Allison after she found us in bed together. Apparently, Allison was coming back to apologize and tell me that she was ready to be serious.
Allison didn't talk to me for about two weeks and then she finally came over and told me she loved me and wanted to be together and blah blah blah... I told her I enjoyed "seeing other people" and I wasn't interested in being serious.
She was crushed, but i didn't want to be with someone who could drop me in a heartbeat the second she saw another guy she wanted to bang.
Why do I love this story? Well, she tried to screw me over because she wanted to "see other people" and jump another guy's bones. That guy shut her down in a horribly cruel way and when she came crawling back, she got another emotional b****-slap because I was "seeing other people" as she suggested. I don't think she ever expected me to actually see other people (and if so, she didn't expect it would be that quick). I love when manipulative people get screwed by their own devious plans.
It's all about respect. If I'm not going to get it, I'm not going to give it.
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